A little over four years ago, I had a night. It was the kind of night that I remember more for the feeling, rather than the actual events. In March of 2012, I had finalized my plans to move down South and had set a date for the start of my life in Nashville (Oh, how things change…). With only a few months left before the big move, my mom, one of my best friends, and myself all headed down to Tennessee for an extended weekend to check out my new neighborhood. We were going to get a sneak preview of the world I was about to be a part of on, what I thought at the time, would be a much more permanent basis.
It was a Wednesday night – the first night of our trip after a day of driving (and, of course, stopping at my all time favorite place to eat - the Back Home Restaurant in Elizabethtown, KY). I don’t remember all of the details of that day, but I do remember a moment - an amazing moment. I was sitting on the patio of Loser’s Bar in Midtown, listening to some random country band play, and enjoying a few drinks. It was the kind of night with weather that you can’t really feel - it’s just so comfortable and perfect.
As I sat there, I remember thinking that this was where my life was going to really begin - in this place, 500 miles away from the world that I knew. It wasn’t exactly the place, but the unknown that excited me so much. I felt like, for the first time, the entire world was in front of me. I could do anything, and be anything, and it was all about to start. For me, Nashville was hope. It was the start of a new life that I never even knew I wanted. Nashville was possibility, and it was all for me. Just me. It was, and is still, one of the best feelings I have ever felt in my life.
While my life in Nashville didn’t exactly last, I look back now and I don’t regret (nor would I ever change) a second of it. A lot has happened since that day. So much has changed. I moved away from home, and I moved back. I fell in love and had my heart broken. I hit the lowest point in my life and built myself back up. I moved to the city and embraced a whole new lifestyle. I left my first real job and started a new one that changed everything I thought I knew about what I want to do with my life. I made new friends and lost some that I never thought I could lose. Through all of this, I never stopped thinking about that one night in Nashville…wishing, hoping, and praying that somehow I could feel that way again. Sadly, I never fully believed that I could.
I never thought I could feel that way again, but here I am. I found it – that feeling of ultimate possibility and hope. The best part, is that this feeling exceeds what I felt that night in Nashville because there is nothing holding me back from embracing it entirely. The biggest difference with how I feel now in comparison to that night is that my life has real direction. I feel it every day. On top of that, I am so lucky (hashtag blessed) for everything that I have in my life. I am about to move in to an amazing apartment in my favorite neighborhood in the city that I love and will always call home – Chicago. I have the best family that I have grown even closer to over the years (who knew getting any closer was even possible). I have great friends that literally make each day a good one. I have chosen to surround myself with everything positive, and cleanse my life of all of the toxic things that were holding me back, which has made all of the difference.
Most of all, I have never been more confident in myself. I love the person that I am and I am fully willing to embrace it. I have overcome so much and feel certain that I am exactly where I need to be. I love everything about my life and I feel inspired each day. In some ways, I feel like this really is the beginning of the rest of my life – a better life. I went from having a “best night of my life” to having the best time of my life, every day. Happy is a good place to be. I intend to make it last.
All that I’m missing now is a Pikachu…
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