*Been putting off writing something post worthy. November arrived, and I had NOTHING. No stories brewing, no ideas of what to write. A big ole zilch egg!
As I logged into my word press account, it had a notification pop up. How about that, I have had this account for four years. Don’t bother going back to look at those really old entries, because they were purged while I sat and waited to figure out just what I wanted to use this space for. Last year I came back to participate in NaNoWriMo once again, in ho/pes that I could actually compete and reach that goal of 50,000 words. Guess what, in case you have not read this blog before, I did achieve that goal. Felt quite good to accomplish that, but with the work that I did, well that is another “story all together.” Nanowrimo is all about the quantity of words, not the quality and I will leave it at that.
This year, I really wanted to give it a try again. But I guess I just don’t have it in me to write. Then this brings me to another problem I am dealing with. NaNoWriMo is what had originally brought me into trying to write something that would amass into a real story of my very own. The idea of being a writer has always been in my head, even from the time I was just ten years old. Last year, I really struggled and I feel like I had come to the realization that I am just not a storyteller.
Then what kind of writer am i? That’s when I have just slowly and painfully come to the realization that I am not a writer. Sure, I journal, but those words are for me. And they are not words worthy of sharing with anyone. They words that help me process the rambling thoughts swirling around in my mind. Sometimes it can make sense, but probably they only make sense to me. However I will be frank with you, sometimes those words don’t make any sense to me what so ever.
After all this time has passed, I am coming to the finalized thought, that all along this was just some sort of pipe dream I had held on to, for a really long time, but one I just need to release. To finally let go of this delusional thinking, and just let it be what it is. I’m not a writer, and that is a good thing that I have never referred to myself as one. Then I would not be a liar.
They say that if you work hard, put forth the effort you can make your dreams come true. Maybe I am just too lazy to put forth the effort, or I just don’t work hard enough for it. But I have let loose of having any dreams years ago. Just like releasing balloons, I opened my hand up and let it fly away.
Does this mean that I will never participate in NaNoWriMo again? That is a rather good question. Since I obviously have issues with committing and absolutes, I don’t think that I can walk away from NaNoWriMo completely and say that I will never try it again. There will be another one next year, and along with that another opportunity to compete. This year, being already more than a week behind, I know that there is just no way that I could amass the amount of words to catch up to the word count I should already been at if I had been working at this all along the way. Certainly I can work at trying to write something to gain more word volume, but then I am also feeling that there just is no point right now.
So for now, I am laying to rest the 2018 NaNoWriMo year as a fail. Or maybe the less harmful way of saying I’m just not a participant this year. OH that does put a twinge in my heart, and is bringing me close to tears. But reality is, I am just not good enough.
I spew forth words here on this blog, I know I make many spelling and grammatical errors that someone who is claiming to be a writer should not make. I don’t take the time to edit my entries. I open up my browser, log in and just write. Then with a quick once over to make sure that at least the title has some meaning and puts forth understanding to convey my words – I just hit publish. Then I don’t look back. Once those words are out there, then I have to let them be. If I stop long enough to really digest what I have written the fear and self doubt with kick in, and I will hit delete just as easily as I had hit publish moments ago.
For now, I will leave this blog along as well. Maybe I am done even writing on this blog. I have not decided. In order to not do anything rash, I’ll just hit publish, and open my hand releasing these words out there.