So here's a thought is it okay for someone you like to #treat you poorly and then #pretend it didn’t happen, making you #question your own grasp on reality, so I read this dynamic called gas #lighting.
It remains quite an intriguing topic as it's apparently a common #tactic of abusers to shift the focus of the blame from their bad behavior onto the person they are victimising.
They say one important side effect of #gas lighting is having your memory “black out” after a verbal disagreement some actually argue the cause as being the brain of a #smart man #protecting you from the cruelty of the abuse, which results in not being able to remember how an argument started lol, maybe not so funny.
You may start to #internalize the idea that there is something wrong with you and that you did something to provoke the situation as you’re increasingly beaten down and #confused by insult and stature, so you take notes
Its quite a #fascinating subject as there are various landmark rulings these days relating to #gaslighting if #evidentiary, narcissism, manipulated verbal bombing as the matter turns into fraud.
All of a sudden the #Defendant becomes the Applicant as the said truths against full disclosed evidentiary puts a Court at #prejudice to the Defendant, simply due to incorrect official information which have led to domestic social, authoritarian or commercial and criminal prosecutions.
How bad are these types, they seem to lack empathy, arrogant and judgemental in attitude, selfish, self-aware and continually #fabricating the truth, whilst make no attention to the paper #trail they leave within #official bodies.
This is a personality disorder, otherwise referred to legally as a malignant narcissist, it's actually #medically recognised as just that in its #destructive form, it formulates from past insecurities or trauma at a very young age and becomes volatile only as age consumes.
Reading some feeds from victims, only make you wonder, the ratio that are simply honest, good people, who have simply been #provoked and abused, only the smart and strong willed have survived and achieved rulings based on factual information and law.
Just never giveup, be who you are.