#repost from @drtolu_thefixer
From far away country in Europe, an international media house begins the search for the most competent marriage/relationship Counselor in Africa, not just in Nigeria o, and they found The Fixer.
So much to say but I will just leave this for someone this morning: Find one thing God has deposited in you to improve the lives of people around you, keep at it, don’t get distracted by criticism, very soon, the universe will align!
For about seven years in my career journey I, was counseling for free, I volunteered, paid transport fare for clients, even buy lunch for some who wouldn’t talk because they are hungry. I’ve paid my dues in the field of counseling, evolving professionally over the years and equipping myself for the future.
Looking at how far God has taken me, it’s okay to say I’m blessed!
By the way, I haven’t worn braids in four years, how do I look
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Jesse and I ... our story, our life - our “pretty little picture”. The best part about this picture is it is us being us- it is real - and I am all about being authentic. Truth, Jesse and I have been through hell and back together. We have split up and gotten back together. We have been dealt our fair share of challenges that have tested our relationship - from family, to health, to financials and even death - to tackling every day life. People often forget relationships take fostering - relationships take problem solving skills, patience, compassion - most importantly love. Relationships take understanding - and learning the right forms of communication at the right time and place. Now a days when things get tough people just quite..I have been blessed to marry my best friend; yet I find it so important to share what people have not seen behind the scenes because behind every pretty little picture there has certainly been tears - but with those tears there has been laughter - there has been anger and frustration - but there has been love and compassion. I smile when I think of all the places - stages and phases of life Jesse and I have been in together, knowing there is so much yet to come. Jesse and I began dating when I was 17 years old - who you are at 17 is not who you are at 25 and who you are at 25 is not who you will be at 35-40 even 50 - time does not stop moving and life will throw you a list of to do’s. Make sure you add in your own to do’s - check in with your partner, dream together, support one another - plan - get excited. Most importantly when you check in - make sure you ask some real questions - do not bottle up feelings, do not hold on to last weeks fight - connect - hold hands, be silly - try not to take life so seriously - embrace each other’s uniqueness. Grow individually and together and never stop learning about one another. #love #marriage #communication #together #wellness #patience #relationships #time #mentalhealthawareness #ottawa Photo credit: @photosbyvaleriechilds
¡Ocupada estos días preparando un encargo para la boda de unos clientes! 😍❤️ Todas las velas tienen como temàtica alguna pelicula de Tim Burton. ¡He disfrutado mucho con este encargo!😊😊
Busy these days preparing an order for the wedding of some clients! 😍❤️ All candles are themed of some Tim Burton movie. I really enjoyed this assignment! 😊😊