In TJ Maxx today just minding my own business and on the phone with my sister when an older lady probably in her mid 60s comes by with her cart. I see her so I move my cart to the side assuming she stopped because she didn’t think she would get by. She just stares at me.. whatever I keep browsing. She interrupts and says, “Are you going into labor tonight” I am completely caught off guard but decide I must have misheard her because no one could be so blatantly rude...right So I politely ask, “excuse me” Assuming she will change her question and come to the realization that you don’t just make those types of comments to strangers in a store, minding their own business. WRONG. Oh so very wrong I was. She then says, “Oh I said when are you due Tonight” I’m completely mortified and her ADULT(I’m talking 40+ year old) daughter just stands there and watches and doesn’t say anything. I said no umm actually I’m due on July 22nd. IT DOESN’T END HERE. She then says no way are you going to make it to your due date you look ready to pop right now. No. Just no. Who in their right mind could think this is ok to say to anyone Practically in tears I turn and walk away... Maybe I’m overreacting considering most people were shocked to find out I was pregnant and others comment on how well/light I’m carrying. I feel great, the baby is healthy and I am happy. But I think perhaps there is a lesson to be learned here: never comment on someone’s weight pregnant or not it’s none of your business, don’t ask a pregnant hormonal woman when her due date is unless you are her OBGYN, and maybe she won’t think to clap back with a snide comment such as when is the grim reaper coming for you. Tonight #courtesy #leavemealone #pregnant #pregnancyproblems #31weekspregnant #dontsayanythingatall #nojustno #mindyourownbusiness #rantover
I constantly struggle with wanting you to stay my little baby forever, and being excited about all of the amazing things you'll do in this life 💞
I have been told more times then I can count that I'm hard on my daughter... Do I care what you think 0 fucks.
Does your opinion change my parenting No.
Does my daughter throw fits Not a chance.
Is she well mannered and respectful 100%.
Does she have an attitude Absolutely, she's mine.
But while you tell me I'm hard on my well behaved child who knows rules and structure.... she's well behaved because that's how she's raised.
Worry about your own kid kicking and screaming about the chocolate bar you said no to that ur gunna give him anyway.
Bullying at its finest. Let me tell you how. I do not know this girl, nor do I care to know her after seeing her character today. I had requested to follow her just so I can build my page & maybe possible do her nails. I seen she was a wife & a mother (as her insta says) and thought well she must be a queen & queen deserves to touch everything with amazing looking hands. She seen a picture on my page that she claims she seen on google a year ago. Okay for arguments sake let’s say she did. Let’s say I didn’t do this design for one of my clients. Let’s say I used this particular piece of art just as inspiration. She made it a goal to come onto my NEW page & comment negative and belittling statements at me. & for what To make herself feel better Never did I say a word to her prior to her commenting on my picture. She just felt like it was her obligation to the world to call me a snake. A snake How am I a snake I could not tell you because I do not know myself. I am sorry if the picture of nails offended you to the point where you had to go out of your way and post on your page that I’m a waste & a snake. I hope that somehow contributes to your life, your health, your mental well being, your money & your family. I can’t stand bullies but I am sorry for whoever made you such an angry & troubled soul.
I think you should focus more on yourself and your life than what others have on their small yet growing page.
#Nails #NailArt #Toronto #Mississauga #Vaughn #Brampton #WestindianGirls #Girls #woman #bullying #Fightforchange #woman #Girls #trinidad #guyana #pathetic #justlove #noshade #indian #followforfollow #makemypagegrow #makebullyingstop #mindyourownbusiness
Sis, can I give you some sound advice Stay out of it. Study to be quiet. Put a guard over your mouth. Focus on your own affairs. Pray diligently. Work faithfully. Mind your business and mind your busy-ness. Seek God’s Face. Do God’s will. Let God and man (people) be inspired by the way you’re living. 💛
Long post alert:
I had to share this story with you all, as it really got under my skin.
Yesterday, I went to get my shoulder checked out, since it's been really bothering me since my bike accident. The doctor spent about 3 minutes with me, told me it was probably just bruised, and then sent me to the front desk to get information on physical therapy.
When I get to my car, I read the paperwork they gave me. It had one line about my shoulder injury, and then a page and a half about how I was overweight, and how that can negatively impact my life. It gave me several phone numbers for weight management specialists, and local gyms. It said that I should consider adding exercise to my daily life.
Let's see....I was wearing a @bodybuilding.com shirt, had spoken to the x- ray tech about which gym we both went to AND was getting my arm checked out due to a bicycle riding accident. At what point did it seem that I didn't live an active lifestyle I know I'm still about 15 pounds above my "ideal" weight, but WTF It really pissed me off, and had me feeling deflated for the rest of the day.
My friend @todo3713 made a good point: what if I was someone who was brand new to fitness, and had that happen to me Can you imagine the extra hurt feelings there
All this to say: never judge a book by its cover. The upside is that this just fueled my fire even more
#fitness #dontjudge #gymrat #mindyourownbusiness #fitfam #instafit #isymfs #ironaddicts #fitchicks #keto #strongnotskinny #pdx #vancouver #thickandfit #positive #pdxfitness #bodybuilding #goals #watchme #gym #strong #muscle
Layout only does 9 photos, so here’s the top 9 days, for those that have been asking about mileage and whatnot. This route wasn’t as hilly as my route in Devon last year, but that’s ok. I’m still just so thankful it didn’t rain, it feels like I didn’t really work that hard. Ready to get home now and do the stuff that’s actually hard. Honestly sitting still is harder for me than this is, but so far no one is paying me to run around for a living, so..... also, never let anyone tell you, and never tell yourself, that you can’t do something. If you need to GTFO and do something for yourself, do it. You don’t have to walk 165 miles in 11 days, but I can’t tell you what might work for you. Seriously, just do it, and ignore people that say ‘gee....it must be nice to be you!!!’, because they don’t know what the F they are talking about. #dontsitstill #dontlistentothehaters #getoutside #hiking #walking #itsabigworld #mindyourownbusiness #getouttatown #nowhitewalls
Hahahaha when you are asking for DARAHAE 3rd Selca in 2018 but it turns out to be a group selfie with Eunhyukee!!! Ahahahah Anchovy for the win! EunHae who DaraHae who DaraHyuk 2018 ahahahahahaha....kekeke....someone is sulking right now....lelz... #MindYourOwnBusiness! :v This is my only Happiness...everything I have is gone already... don't take this away from me too....just do your own thing...