HONESTLY. SEND SOME FUCKING HELP. Actually I was supposed to have some fucking help today, but my sitter cancelled on me, and the last four days have whittled my stamina down to about the equivalent of a piece of paper mache in a hurricane. I’m literally holding on for dear life as gale force winds in the form of my 6 year old, 3 year old, and 6 month old take blows at me. One more argument over socks and I might just completely disintegrate. Friday I kept my son home from school. His leukemia and a cold can take a little more out of him than others and, because it was his birthday weekend, I wanted him feeling well. Saturday was the birthday party. We took 11 five year old boys bowling which, in case you’re wondering, was a mistake. 50% like to take turns and keep score while the other 50% like to just hurl the fuck out of the ball down the alley and 100% of them don’t want to listen. It was about another hour from becoming the suburban version of Lord of the Flies. The pizza/cake portion finished early and we were left with about 40 unplanned minutes of free time. When my husband realized it, he started yelling and waving his hands over at the front desk, “REOPEN THE LANES! CHARGE MY CARD!” He looked TERRIFIED. Sunday was the actual birthday which had to be celebrated again, and today is off from school and my husband is working and I’m honestly just left with very little will to live. My house is scattered with pieces of presents, wrapping paper and despair. My daughter won’t stop asking me if her birthday is tomorrow and I just don’t think I’ll survive another “concept of time” conversation. Her birthday incidentally, is on Thanksgiving so, yeah, fuck me sideways trying to explain to her how that won’t happen every year. The baby is constipated and just keeps letting out these massive grunts and I’m just hoping these prunes I’ve been giving him don’t make him shit his brains out for the rest of the week. Also, 0/10 stars ✨ recommended for assembling a telescope before coffee and also trying to explain how it works because, honestly, I have zero fucking clue. ALEXA!!!! All I know is I might take a vacation to the moon.
Happy Veteran’s Day to all who are serving and have served. So thankful for all of your sacrifices for our country. Especially thankful for my hunky sailor! I love you so much babe! I’m so appreciative of all you have done and do for us.♥️
Everything in moderation 🤷🏼♀️ I was once eating 700 calories a day 🤦🏼♀️ I’m so glad that I’m not that person anymore.
I’m also not saying how many calories I eat now because next minute everyone thinks they need that much and start eating all the food.
I didn’t just wake up and decide I’m going to eat all day long and magically stay in good condition.
It has taken Forever and a baby later but slowly changing my diet has made such a difference to my vibe and happiness.
Finding food you like and a training style that works for you also helps.
It’s good to be happy , you should try it 👸🏼 #food #moderation #fitmumlife
This one ❤️ my 6-year old baby girl.
Every night she wants me to stay with her until she falls asleep. .
When I am feeling hectic, pressured, have a client call or anything else, it feels like hours and hours and I find myself slowly getting annoyed.
Guess what In these situations, it seems to take her much longer to fall asleep 😬😬
Do you know what I am talking about
Now I have decided to CHOOSE who I want to be in that situation.
My daughter needs me, she wants to feel safe and protected and loved.
I want her more than anything to feel those things. I choose to remind myself that this is a time when I can hold her hand and fill her heart with love and she can fill mine.
A time to let her know, that I will always be there for her, whenever she needs me.
And more than anything I remind myself, that she and her brother (and their dad) are the reason why I do any of it ❤️❤️❤️❤️
So whenever you find yourself getting annoyed.
Remind yourself that you always have a choice and I urge you...
Choose Love ❤️
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“And she thinks we’re just fishing...” ❤️ I turned my camera back on and hopped back out of my car as we were leaving when I saw dad bring out a fishing pole to fish with his daughter, it was the very last photo on my SD card... literally the most perfect ending to a session I can think of 🥰