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With the need for instant gratification and unhealthy coping mechanisms, we tend to make irrationally emotional decisions instead of emotionally rational decisions when conflict happens. In most cases that when we’ve been hurt, we tend to avoid the conflict altogether and shoving it under the rug in hopes that the issue(s) will go disappear. Unfortunately, it doesn’t and the rug eventually looks like a mini volcano just waiting to erupt 😖
It is perfectly normal to face situations like this but what we do (fight or flight) makes a huge difference in how we can resolve the conflict and hurt or damage done. Most of us aren’t equipped with conflict resolution which a crucial lifeskill in our lives and we have to learn from experience, in most cases, from painful traumatic ones too.
The next time you get into a tight spot with your partner or friend, fight instead of take flight - not fight against each other but fight for each other. Remember, it’s you two against the world and not againts each other.
Every conflict you both face gives you an opportunity to get intimate (not sexual) but to be vulnerable, to speak up about the issue and to resolve it with compromise, respect and patience in order to have better understanding of each other - so you don’t keep going in circles, repeating the same vicious cycle, which is usually about the same repetitive issue most times.
So before you take flight during the next conflict, thinking of that perfect relationship you have always envisioned for yourself, put in the work. Keep improving yourself and your character. Be the loyal person you have always been seeking for. Be that “perfect” person you have always been searhing for. It always starts with you! Keep loving and stay loyal my friends. 💋 #therawvagabond #extRAWordinary
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Now do not misunderstand me when I call myself a shell. I mean - a used up bullet casing.
As in the aftermath of something lethal.
As in, an echo of inflicted evil.
- Amrita C.
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