I’m not in it the for the clout; I’m in it for the clouds ⛅️
There’s no rule that says I have to live life like everyone else. You don’t have to graduate college in 4 years, you don’t have to have your life together by age 25, you don’t have to even go to college to have a job that makes you happy. This imaginary list of due dates only adds stress to ones life. Don’t get stuck comparing yourself to other people who seem to “have it all figured out”. I’ll let you in on a little secret, no one knows what the hell they’re doing. We’re all just trying to figure it out as we go along.
You will never make the crab walk straight. 🦀 It’s important to understand that some things can’t be changed. Knowing the difference between what can and can’t be changed will help stave off high levels of frustration. And anger. Even despair.